Myths in Divorce

There are no winners in divorce or battles over children.  “Victory” will not make things any easier with your ex.

A judge cannot make people act reasonably or hold your hands forever.  A judge can make an Order, but may not want to enforce it for example by locking up a mother for a short sharp shock, which would leave the children alone.

The internet is often out of date or written by somebody with a particular agenda.  The exception is the Families Need Fathers website which is pretty robust but balanced.  fnf.org.uk

Children have the rights to see both parents.  A child is going to see both parents unless there is a very good reason, such as a teenage child not wanting to.  Many fathers have to accept any humiliation and condition to build up contact with their children and they should do exactly that.

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